Welcome to Day 5 of The Connection Challenge, a 7-part series about creating, cultivating, and maximizing personal and professional relationships.
Here’s what we’ve covered so far:
Day 1: Show yourself a little love
Here’s what we’re looking at today…
Today’s challenge is specifically for those of you who are looking for love.
If you’re single and trying to attract a romantic partner, I want you to listen closely.
If you ask most single people what they’re looking for in a romantic partner, they’ll happily share a laundry list of exactly what they want...
They want someone who’s fit and ambitious. They want someone with shared values and a complementary personality. They want someone who’s crushing it financially, who’s emotionally intelligent, drop-dead gorgeous and completely put together...
In short, they want a total ‘10.’
But here’s the thing: You don’t get the relationship you wish for, you get the relationship you’re ready for.
In other words:
You do not attract what you want; you attract what you are.












