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Day 5 of The Connection Challenge | Exclusively for members of Club 12 with Dean Bokhari

Welcome to Day 5 of The Connection Challenge, a 7-part series about creating, cultivating, and maximizing personal and professional relationships.

Here’s what we’ve covered so far:

Here’s what we’re looking at today…


Today’s challenge is specifically for those of you who are looking for love.

If you’re single and trying to attract a romantic partner, I want you to listen closely.

If you ask most single people what they’re looking for in a romantic partner, they’ll happily share a laundry list of exactly what they want...

They want someone who’s fit and ambitious. They want someone with shared values and a complementary personality. They want someone who’s crushing it financially, who’s emotionally intelligent, drop-dead gorgeous and completely put together...

In short, they want a total ‘10.’

But here’s the thing: You don’t get the relationship you wish for, you get the relationship you’re ready for.

In other words:

You do not attract what you want; you attract what you are.

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